{"id":282336,"date":"2018-12-15T15:34:00","date_gmt":"2018-12-15T13:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.monitoruldedorna.ro\/?p=282336"},"modified":"2018-12-15T15:34:00","modified_gmt":"2018-12-15T13:34:00","slug":"daca-nu-esti-cuminte-mosul-nu-ti-va-aduce-nimic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.monitoruldedorna.ro\/?p=282336","title":{"rendered":"\u201eDac\u0103 nu e\u015fti cuminte, Mo\u015ful nu-\u0163i va aduce nimic!\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"odxpj6aa61a3e084a6\" ><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-9832460043734316\"\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<!-- MDD - \u00eenceput de articol -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9832460043734316\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"2844073262\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/div><style type=\"text\/css\">\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 1201px) {\r\n.odxpj6aa61a3e084a6 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 993px) and (max-width: 1200px) {\r\n.odxpj6aa61a3e084a6 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 769px) and (max-width: 992px) {\r\n.odxpj6aa61a3e084a6 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 768px) and (max-width: 768px) {\r\n.odxpj6aa61a3e084a6 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (max-width: 767px) {\r\n.odxpj6aa61a3e084a6 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n<\/style>\r\n<p>\u201eDac\u0103 nu e\u015fti cuminte, Mo\u015ful nu-\u0163i va aduce nimic!\u201d sau cum ajunge un personaj de poveste obiect de \u015fantaj. A\u0219teptarea va atinge cote ridicate \u00een preajma zilei de 24 decembrie, atunci c\u00e2nd b\u0103tr\u00e2nul Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun va ajunge la micu\u021bi. Pentru a le disciplina comportamentul, mul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi recurg la o strategie \u201e\u00eemp\u0103m\u00e2ntenit\u0103\u201d deja de genera\u021bii \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eDac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti cuminte, nu mai vine Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun!\u201d, le spun cei mari micu\u021bilor. Aproape to\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u015fi bunicii se folosesc de acest personaj pentru a-i determina pe copii s\u0103 fac\u0103 ce vor adul\u0163ii, f\u0103r\u0103 crize \u015fi certuri. Doar c\u0103 acest lucru \u00eel transform\u0103 pe bietul Mo\u015f Cr\u0103ciun dintr-un personaj generos \u015fi vesel \u00een judec\u0103tor de-al binelui care se uit\u0103 cu ochi critic \u015fi cu o spr\u00e2ncean\u0103 ridicat\u0103 la tot ce fac copiii, iar la fiecare abatere de la spusele adul\u0163ilor mai taie c\u00e2te o juc\u0103rie de pe list\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eDac\u0103 nu e\u015fti cuminte, Mo\u015ful nu-\u0163i va aduce nimic!\u201d sau cum ajunge un personaj de poveste obiect de \u015fantaj. Am abordat acest subiect delicat cu Iulia Ghe\u021bu, psiholog \u00een cadrul Policlinicii Dorna Medical. Iat\u0103 de ce nu e bine s\u0103 \u00eel folosim pe Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun pe post de educa\u021bie coercitiv\u0103:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1.<\/strong> Cre\u0103m confuzie. \u00cen condi\u021biile \u00een care copiii sunt \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi din toate sursele c\u0103 Mo\u0219ul e bun, aduce cadouri, ba chiar premii (cum se folose\u0219te \u00een anumite reclame), s\u0103-i spunem c\u0103 Mo\u0219ul se sup\u0103r\u0103 \u0219i nu mai face cadouri copilului creaz\u0103 confuzie \u00een sistemul lui de valori. Este Mo\u0219ul bun sau r\u0103u?<\/p>\n<p><strong>2.<\/strong> Promov\u0103m un model gre\u0219it de corec\u021bie. Educa\u021bia cu ajutorul pedepsei este un model dep\u0103\u0219it, iar idea de \u201eamenin\u021bare cu Mo\u0219ul\u201d este \u0219i ea gre\u0219it\u0103. Educa\u021bia prin amenin\u021bare \u0219i pedeaps\u0103 rezolv\u0103 poate pe termen scurt situa\u021bia, dar pe termen lung produce prejudicii educa\u021bionale semnificative-de la duplicitarism, la evitarea asum\u0103rii responsabilit\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3.<\/strong> Arat\u0103 o vulnerabilitate a autorit\u0103\u021bii p\u0103rintelui. Acesta nu este capabil s\u0103 regleze situa\u021biile rela\u021bionale cu copiii \u0219i atunci apeleaz\u0103 la un personaj imaginar care s\u0103 rezolve ceea ce p\u0103rintele nu poate solu\u021biona printr-o rela\u021bie optim\u0103 cu propriul copil.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4.<\/strong> Este o minciun\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu. \u00cen fapt, p\u0103rin\u021bii sunt cei care nu vor mai aduce nimic copiilor, deci p\u0103rin\u021bii se folosesc de un personaj pentru a min\u021bi \u0219i a amenin\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eMo\u015ful este cu ochii pe tine, ai grij\u0103!\u201d, iat\u0103 c\u00e2t de simplu transform\u0103 p\u0103rintele un concept pozitiv \u00eentr-o sperietoare menit\u0103 s\u0103-l ajute s\u0103-\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 copiii la respect. Nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd, spiritul s\u0103rb\u0103torilor de Cr\u0103ciun, care const\u0103 \u00een ideea de a oferi, nu de a primi, se pierde tot mai mult \u00eentr-o cultur\u0103 orientat\u0103 spre consumerism.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e2t conceptul de Mo\u015f Nicolae, c\u00e2t \u015fi cel de Mo\u015f Cr\u0103ciun ar trebui s\u0103 se concentreze mai degrab\u0103 pe a le oferi celorlal\u0163i dovezi de dragoste \u015fi cadouri care s\u0103 simbolizeze sentimentele noastre fa\u0163\u0103 de ei, de a petrece timp \u00een familie, de a face lucruri \u00eempreun\u0103. \u00cen schimb, copiii sunt \u00eencuraja\u0163i s\u0103 scrie scrisori \u00een care s\u0103-i \u00een\u015fire o lung\u0103 list\u0103 de dorin\u0163e personale Mo\u015fului.<\/p>\n<p>La fel ca \u00een cazul rug\u0103ciunii, aceast\u0103 scrisoare ar trebui, poate, s\u0103 con\u0163in\u0103 mai pu\u0163in cereri, c\u00e2t mai ales mul\u0163umiri \u015fi dorin\u0163e care s\u0103-i priveasc\u0103 pe al\u0163ii, la care s\u0103 se adauge, \u00eentr-un final, o singur\u0103 op\u0163iune pentru un cadou. Copiii ar trebui s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 bucuria \u00een simplul act de a-i scrie lui Mo\u015f Nicolae sau Mo\u015f Cr\u0103ciun, de a-i face singuri sau \u00eempreun\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u0163ii o scrisoare aparte, nu \u00een a se concentra exclusiv asupra dorin\u0163elor individuale, este de p\u0103rere psihologul Pawel.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cens\u0103 c\u00e2\u0163i dintre p\u0103rin\u0163ii din ziua de azi \u00ee\u015fi \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 copiii \u00een preajma s\u0103rb\u0103torilor s\u0103 se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 \u015fi la micu\u0163ii mai pu\u0163in noroco\u015fi care nu au p\u0103rin\u0163i sau care au p\u0103rin\u0163i foarte s\u0103raci \u015fi nici nu au ce pune pe mas\u0103 ori \u00een brad, poate nici m\u0103car o crengu\u0163\u0103 care s\u0103 le aduc\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103 spiritul Cr\u0103ciunului? C\u00e2\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 copiii s\u0103 doneze din juc\u0103riile lor \u015fi celor nep\u0103stui\u0163i m\u0103car o dat\u0103 pe an?<\/p><div class=\"jtset6aa61a3e084cb\" ><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-9832460043734316\"\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<!-- MDD 2024 - mijloc de articol -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9832460043734316\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"8739902356\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/div><style type=\"text\/css\">\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 1201px) {\r\n.jtset6aa61a3e084cb {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 993px) and (max-width: 1200px) {\r\n.jtset6aa61a3e084cb {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 769px) and (max-width: 992px) {\r\n.jtset6aa61a3e084cb {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 768px) and (max-width: 768px) {\r\n.jtset6aa61a3e084cb {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (max-width: 767px) {\r\n.jtset6aa61a3e084cb {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n<\/style>\r\n\n<p>Un exerci\u0163iu pe care p\u0103rin\u0163ii ar trebui s\u0103-l fac\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103 cu copiii lor ar trebui s\u0103 presupun\u0103 cump\u0103rarea unui cadou, a unui co\u015f cu alimente sau dulciuri destinate unui orfelinat. Ori poate ca cei mici s\u0103 fie implica\u0163i \u00een sortarea h\u0103inu\u0163elor mai vechi din \u015fifonier pentru a le face o bucurie copiilor care le vor folosi mai departe cu bucurie.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eUn cadou ar trebui s\u0103 fie un cadou, nu o form\u0103 de constr\u00e2ngere\u201d. Cr\u0103ciunul nu ar trebui s\u0103 se reduc\u0103 la Mo\u015f Cr\u0103ciun, dar \u00een ceea ce-i prive\u015fte pe copiii din ziua de azi accentul pic\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai mult pe cadourile pe care le vor primi cu condi\u0163ia s\u0103 fie cumin\u0163i, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e bine, s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce ce li se spune, s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi asculte profesorii, p\u0103rin\u0163ii, iar lista poate continua la nesf\u00e2r\u015fit.<\/p>\n<p>Astfel, p\u0103rin\u0163ii transform\u0103 un concept pozitiv \u00eentr-o modalitate de manipulare \u015fi constr\u00e2ngere. P\u0103rin\u0163ii nu ar trebui s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 promisiunea unui cadou ca o arm\u0103 de control \u015fi constr\u00e2ngere a copilului. Atunci c\u00e2nd am decis c\u0103 vrem s\u0103-i d\u0103ruim copilului nostru ceva ar trebui s\u0103 fim corec\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103 nu condi\u0163ion\u0103m primirea acelui obiect amenin\u0163\u00e2ndu-l c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu ni se supune \u00een toate recompensa va fi retras\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eMai bine este ca p\u0103rintele s\u0103 nu amenin\u0163e deloc din moment ce \u015ftie c\u0103 nu va pune amenin\u0163area \u00een aplicare. Pentru c\u0103 mul\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163i le spun copiilor c\u0103 nu vor mai primi nimic de la Mo\u015ful \u015ftiind foarte bine c\u0103 le vor da cadoul este o lips\u0103 de coeren\u0163\u0103 a p\u0103rin\u0163ilor \u00een educa\u0163ia copiilor, folosim promisiunea unui dar pentru a ne controla copiii.<\/p>\n<p>Nu cred c\u0103 un so\u0163 care a decis s\u0103-i fac\u0103 so\u0163iei un cadou cu prilejul anivers\u0103rii o va amenin\u0163a constant c\u0103 nu va mai primi nimic dac\u0103 nu face ceea ce i se spune. Un cadou ar trebui s\u0103 fie un cadou, nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie altceva dec\u00e2t este indiferent c\u00e2t de tenta\u0163i am fi s\u0103-l transform\u0103m \u00eentr-o pedeaps\u0103 sau \u00eentr-o form\u0103 de manipulare.<\/p>\n<p>Cu ce \u00eenlocuim \u015fantajul? La fel de bine am putea pune semnul egal \u00eentre aceast\u0103 metod\u0103 \u015fi ideea de a-i pune copilului band\u0103 adeziv\u0103 peste gur\u0103 ca s\u0103-l fac s\u0103 tac\u0103. Da, ar putea s\u0103 func\u0163ioneze, dar este \u00een acela\u015fi timp o lips\u0103 de respect fa\u0163\u0103 de copil \u015fi o form\u0103 de abuz emo\u0163ional.<\/p>\n<p>La fel ca \u00een cazul altor reac\u0163ii imediate pe care le au p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u00een rela\u0163ia cu copiii lor, care dau rezultate pe termen scurt, dar fac r\u0103u pe termen lung, amenin\u0163area cu Mo\u015f Nicolae sau Mo\u015f Cr\u0103ciun este o form\u0103 gre\u015fit\u0103 de a disciplina, miz\u00e2nd pe manipularea emo\u0163ional\u0103 a copilului. \u00cen schimb, p\u0103rin\u0163ii pot s\u0103 renun\u0163e la \u015fantaj \u00een favoarea unei abord\u0103ri constructive: copilul trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 compensa\u0163ia.<\/p>\n<p>Mai exact, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd vars\u0103 ceva pe jos sau face mizerie \u00een camer\u0103, urmarea fireasc\u0103 este c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 curat. P\u0103rintele trebuie s\u0103-i ofere copilului op\u0163iuni, nu s\u0103 ia decizii \u00een locul lui. Astfel, dac\u0103 nu vrea s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce un anumit tip de legum\u0103 trebuie \u00eentrebat ce alt\u0103 m\u00e2ncare s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 ar prefera pentru a g\u0103si o cale care s\u0103 mul\u0163umeasc\u0103 ambele p\u0103r\u0163i.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rin\u0163ii ar trebui s\u0103 decid\u0103 ceea ce vor face ei \u00eentr-o anumit\u0103 situa\u0163ie, nu ceea ce \u00eei vor determina pe copii s\u0103 fac\u0103. Apoi ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi respecte deciziile, \u00een limite rezonabile, \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 solu\u0163ii adaptate situa\u0163iei. Uneori este bine ca p\u0103rintele s\u0103 lase copilul s\u0103 se loveasc\u0103 de anumite urm\u0103ri naturale \u0219i fire\u015fti ale ac\u0163iunilor pe care le ini\u0163iaz\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd este sigur c\u0103 nimic r\u0103u nu i se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla micu\u0163ului. Rela\u0163ia dintre p\u0103rinte \u0219i copil trebuie s\u0103 se bazeze pe o colaborare constant\u0103, nu pe impunerea voin\u0163ei p\u0103rinte\u015fti cu orice pre\u0163 \u015fi \u00een orice condi\u0163ii.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Articol de Iulia Ghe\u021bu, psiholog \u00een cadrul Policlinicii Dorna Medical<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"vuxkw6aa61a3e084e3\" ><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-9832460043734316\"\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\n<!-- MDD 2024 - final de articol -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9832460043734316\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"2429140290\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/div><style type=\"text\/css\">\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 1201px) {\r\n.vuxkw6aa61a3e084e3 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 993px) and (max-width: 1200px) {\r\n.vuxkw6aa61a3e084e3 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 769px) and (max-width: 992px) {\r\n.vuxkw6aa61a3e084e3 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (min-width: 768px) and (max-width: 768px) {\r\n.vuxkw6aa61a3e084e3 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n@media screen and (max-width: 767px) {\r\n.vuxkw6aa61a3e084e3 {\r\ndisplay: block;\r\n}\r\n}\r\n<\/style>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eDac\u0103 nu e\u015fti cuminte, Mo\u015ful nu-\u0163i va aduce nimic!\u201d sau cum ajunge un personaj de poveste obiect de \u015fantaj. A\u0219teptarea va atinge cote ridicate \u00een preajma zilei de 24 decembrie, atunci c\u00e2nd b\u0103tr\u00e2nul Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun va ajunge la micu\u021bi. Pentru a le disciplina comportamentul, mul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi recurg la o strategie \u201e\u00eemp\u0103m\u00e2ntenit\u0103\u201d deja de genera\u021bii \u00eentregi. 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